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 Its been awhile since I wrote anything here but the passing away of my Uncle forces me to etch a few words on behalf of his soul. During my childhood days there was a timeframe that we had no place to go basically homless and it was my Uncle who took us in and looked after us upuntil higher secondary school. And his selfless action is maybe one of the reasons I have reached where I am today.  Till this day I am amazed by how he managed his responsibilities. During his life he faced strong critiscism from many but tht was only because a timid soul. Strong, confident but still very timid I would feel. I have been fortunate to recieve firsthand alot of advice from him. Like he would sometimes say "Now that you are married you have to become a balance between your wife and family." Or sometimes he would say when needed to make a tough decision. " There will be lot of opinions from all sides but do only what you  is the right thing to do.". One thing that saddens me is ...

 Normally I don't write on controversial topics.  Hundred years from now people will read history books of   this time frame and be like, What is going on here in this time . It is so confusing ,In one part of the world there is the restriction placed on education due to harsh incorrect interpretation of religious Laws. While in other parts where the same Law is followed women are in the forefront in terms of education. And in extreme contrast to both such cases here comes a group of self righteous individuals claiming that the hijab should come off if she wants education.  The Hijab is frowned upon citing claims of patriarchal societal origins and somewhere in all that a discussion of uniformity needed in school areas pops up. This writing is not for the people of today but for that small girl (with hijab or without hijab) that will be  reading a history book quite confused on what was going on here. Lil girl I know you will be thinking being a women in th...

 Today I come forward with a blunt statement , it has nothing to do with any inspirational characters but all to do with an idea that I was most fortunate to have thought of and took the liberty to get that written down without wasting any time. Well, the thing is I feel we are who we are today because of all the things that have happened to us in the past. Example ,if you are a suspicious person it must be because you have been time and again been let down or had to interact with people that in some way may have betrayed /let you down in some way or the other right. Or if you are loving and caring you may have  been treated as such  Apologies if I sound a bit cliché in the next few lines just bear with me on this one for a second. In this life as we make our way through it we are put in situations or in connect with other similar travellers correct. And each person you interact with will effect you in some way or the other. And it is not necessary that all their interact...

 I intended to write about this the moment  it was put in front of me. The reason being I, often times than I can remember , keep doubting myself on my capabilities as a person. I am sure you have come across such phases in your life where you had the same experience.  This person I am about to write about  may help you ridding you of such doubts. This time  unlike other previous write-ups. I am writing so carefully because I intend get the complete image of what I want to be put out there in total clarity ,without a shed of mistranslation or any small detail that might have not made sense .  Lets start we often come across these videos right , You don't need a College degree to be successful! Look at Bill gates ,Look at Mark Zuckerberg look at all these other great personalities. When you watch such videos you jump with strong excitement  shouting out loud "Lets drop out of college". And for some choosing such an alternative would be a completely irra...

 "Revoke the case" he shouted, "It has caused us enough misery for a lifetime. You were not there for us ever and now when you need us you think keeping hold of this ego will do you any good. For once in your godamn life do something right make amends to your life. Let your child live. You inturn can live. There is no point in holding on to this ego."- These were a gist of the coversation between Yash and his father. We would need a lil more details thrown at us to understand what is going on here. Well you see Yash and his father are not having a good relationship now you see. Because since childhood yash's father was a solid drinker , i mean the real hardcore one. He gets up early to take a shot and ends his day drinking. Now drinking would not have been the problem. His abusive relationship was the problem. He deprived him of his childhood. And when he was just in his 8th grade kicked him and his mother out of the house. They both have been alone since th...

 Isn't this the very case for each and everyone of us. We come into this world and we leave this world , between that we have all those unfulfilled Dreams unachieved goals. Each day becomes a great struggle to accomplish something amazing , something worth leaving a legacy behind. I guess what i want to achieve in this write up is to impress upon the readers a simple thought process. You are not worthless . You are not living a life without meaning. we only maybe feel that we are not accomplishing anything but in truth we play a important role in the great schemes of things. Shucks who am I kidding . I am just a newbie writer trying to make sense of what all this is for. Take the Diary of Anne Frank for instance. When she wrote those daily random days of her life. She for sure never saw how great of an impact that Diary could make. Without doubt one of the best books I have read for sure.And if that is the case even though we take to the streets proclaming out loud my lif...

 As I come back from office the story of this inspirational character keeps running through my mind.  And i keep saying to myself or should I say thinking to myself, I have to write about Miss C.  If anything I intend to get from this writings is to reach out to a few readers and ignite in them an inspiration so loud that it changes the way we approach problems.  And although I wish my way of living could inspire few,  that day is just a distant future that may or may not come to pass.  But equally so , that doesn't mean I can't  write about people that have reached a certain point where their existence is to brighten our days or pour into us a nice warmth of hopefull resonances.  Thank god for auto spell check. Helps me add in few words into this write up that i would never have thought of.  Hehe...  Miss C was introduced to me by a friend.  And for obvious reasons thats not her real name.  And i heard her story from a friend ...