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 I intended to write about this the moment  it was put in front of me. The reason being I, often times than I can remember , keep doubting myself on my capabilities as a person. I am sure you have come across such phases in your life where you had the same experience.  This person I am about to write about  may help you ridding you of such doubts. This time  unlike other previous write-ups. I am writing so carefully because I intend get the complete image of what I want to be put out there in total clarity ,without a shed of mistranslation or any small detail that might have not made sense .  Lets start we often come across these videos right , You don't need a College degree to be successful! Look at Bill gates ,Look at Mark Zuckerberg look at all these other great personalities. When you watch such videos you jump with strong excitement  shouting out loud "Lets drop out of college". And for some choosing such an alternative would be a completely irra...

 "Revoke the case" he shouted, "It has caused us enough misery for a lifetime. You were not there for us ever and now when you need us you think keeping hold of this ego will do you any good. For once in your godamn life do something right make amends to your life. Let your child live. You inturn can live. There is no point in holding on to this ego."- These were a gist of the coversation between Yash and his father. We would need a lil more details thrown at us to understand what is going on here. Well you see Yash and his father are not having a good relationship now you see. Because since childhood yash's father was a solid drinker , i mean the real hardcore one. He gets up early to take a shot and ends his day drinking. Now drinking would not have been the problem. His abusive relationship was the problem. He deprived him of his childhood. And when he was just in his 8th grade kicked him and his mother out of the house. They both have been alone since th...

 Isn't this the very case for each and everyone of us. We come into this world and we leave this world , between that we have all those unfulfilled Dreams unachieved goals. Each day becomes a great struggle to accomplish something amazing , something worth leaving a legacy behind. I guess what i want to achieve in this write up is to impress upon the readers a simple thought process. You are not worthless . You are not living a life without meaning. we only maybe feel that we are not accomplishing anything but in truth we play a important role in the great schemes of things. Shucks who am I kidding . I am just a newbie writer trying to make sense of what all this is for. Take the Diary of Anne Frank for instance. When she wrote those daily random days of her life. She for sure never saw how great of an impact that Diary could make. Without doubt one of the best books I have read for sure.And if that is the case even though we take to the streets proclaming out loud my lif...

 As I come back from office the story of this inspirational character keeps running through my mind.  And i keep saying to myself or should I say thinking to myself, I have to write about Miss C.  If anything I intend to get from this writings is to reach out to a few readers and ignite in them an inspiration so loud that it changes the way we approach problems.  And although I wish my way of living could inspire few,  that day is just a distant future that may or may not come to pass.  But equally so , that doesn't mean I can't  write about people that have reached a certain point where their existence is to brighten our days or pour into us a nice warmth of hopefull resonances.  Thank god for auto spell check. Helps me add in few words into this write up that i would never have thought of.  Hehe...  Miss C was introduced to me by a friend.  And for obvious reasons thats not her real name.  And i heard her story from a friend ...

 The recent kindness that I have become a suspect of is the call out or more like a shout out to the rider that has forgotten to attend to his side stand before starting his bike. For some reason every other person has had the pleasure to shout out to the unattended stand. This act comes in the purest  straight from the heart because we know not of the whereabouts of the rider nor his name but we see a normal human being in danger and unaware of the unattended stand so we bring his attention to it. Sometimes it doesn't even require voice, a simple concerned look plus the pointing of our finger to the unattended stand does the trick. And in this act the suspect request for no favour or reward in return. Because we do not hesitate or stutter when the need to help a fellow in need arises. Straight from the heart to the guilty unattended stand. All it takes is  a moment of kindness to spread a lifetime of joy. Stay kind stay safe.

[for the readers's imagination  -saving your dear ones from the anxieties of the world,] I saw you fettered in the same old chains And some new. So I tried to free you And You strangled me. [for the reader's imagination -imagine a family running away from domestic violence] When this Big House shrunk In spite of its size Too small a space to hold our cries. I thought we'd make a way out, side by side.  But you abandoned me.  We were five clinging on to the same broken board.  Hoping the waves would wash us ashore.  But when the tides turned You blamed me for the wreck that the storm caused.  You blamed me for the flood that the rain brought.  You blamed me for abandoning Ship.  And you blamed me for what little we had left.  And every time you Blamed me  Your Heart grew Heavier.  With Hate and Fury And so You stayed.  When we tried to rush outta the burning building the flames hissed at us from every side.  And If I had so...

 Ego gets in the way. All the time. You see it happen everywhere. I'm guilty of it. We re all guilty of it. At some point or the other. This unwillingness to admit you re wrong. That's bad enough. You know what's worse?  not even attempting to consider that you might be wrong.  That no matter how great of a person you think you are, some of the fault lies with you.  That you re not entirely blameless. That you've done something that you should feel an ounce of shame about. A smudge of regret, of remorse to blemish your self proclaimed perfection.  That it's time to shoulder responsibility.  Feigning ignorance. It's not the lack of will to acknowledge a mistake when one has been made. It's the unwillingness to even for a second, consider your own fallibility. To take a break. Sit down. Take a deep breath. And take a good long look at yourself. And say: You know what? I'M WRONG. WHAT I DID WAS WRONG. AND I'M RESPONSIBLE FOR IT. and I'm sorry for al...