Domestic violence

I am here to share a story of lil  shabby Kid.  You see this kid had all the things he wanted in the world.  He had an amazing family,  A good education he had food on his table everyday.  Let say his life was perfect.  You see kids like this the world has for some reason given a strange idea to his life.  A life where its easy for Shabby kid will ruin him.  It will make him spoilt.  And this idea has for some reason creeped into many households and made Shabby kids life hard.  As if you were running a blady simulation so that you can teach shabby kid that Life is not easy and its a nightmare outside.  So the next time Kid throws out a tantrum you can blame yourself , you spoilt shabby kid with a good life,  a perfect life.  The world warned you ,this is what happens when you give a shabby the Good life. 

 But hey this story is not about tht,  its abt how shabby kid now has grown up and become shabby adult.  And he has mastered a skill to get a good job in a reputed company.  Fast forward years from now shabby adult is promoted and is married and has a PERFECT FAMILY. IN SHORT A PERFECT LIFE.  hehe..  What a messed up story.  Am i seriously writing this.  What does this even mean. I mean i normally write to put  a message out there.

so you see Shabby kid never made it to PERFECT LIFE whatever that may mean .You see shabby kid had messed up family,  You see kids father was an alcholic.  Kid father was abusive.  All that kid remembers of childhood is an abusive disrespectful  father who showed no compassion no love.  That leaves shabby kid with lack of confidence. I mean how can you be confident or strong self esteem if the core point from where you derive this is broken. Shabby Shady kid never made it to a PERFECT LIFE bcz shady kid never knew if such a thing even existed.  

So then shadyy gets an idea he knows that for the path to perfect life may not be easy and he exist to maybe right all the wrongs that has happened.  So one by one he tries setting all the wrong that is stopping him from reaching that perfect Life. 

He tries amending his fathers drinking habits,  tries to teach a long lost lesson that compassion that starts at home can build a better family.  He tries to amend all the wrong that has come out of his dads abusive behaviour.  You may notice that in the whole  story only now does the phrase  DAD occur  instead of Father.  Because now its all about the path to Perfect life.  Coz now its only that destination. The ego the anger the hatred that should all be left out. 

Now you see here is the twist in the story.  You see all his attempts failed. His Dad never stopped drinking. His childhood memories of all the opression  never passed away.  Ho to hell with all that nothing changed.  One after the other all came toplling down.  

But in all of that shabby kid realized one thing HE tried. He Knew in the depths of his heart he has no power over the minds of others and that they decide for themselves and inturn for their decisions a century of generation down the line will suffer. He knows all of that.  But you see the Perfect life is not when you attain all the wonderfull things this world has to offer but its when you start taking action everyday to help others in need.  When you take actions to right all the wrong.  You are already in that PERFECT LIFE.  REALIZE this now.  Shabby kid was in his PERFECT LIFE the moment he decided to work against the abuse ,against the wrong. 

Take actions against domestic violence it hurts a generation.